When Pain is Beautiful

I was in UP Diliman the other day when I saw this thought-provoking, gut-wrenching graffiti on a wall at the side of the CSSP building. I really thought it was meant for me at that moment, otherwise, I wouldn't care.

And though I like to think that it wasn't really so much of a question but a piercing statement, this begs for an answer. Can someone please explain this to me?

Melancholy strikes again!